7 signs of true love from a man

The adage “actions speak louder than words” rings truer than ever when it comes to dating and relationships. Anyone can tell you what you want to hear – but only someone who actually MEANS what they say will make sure their actions back up their words.


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One of the biggest complaints I get these days from women is about men who tend to slowly back away after they label them as a ‘strong black woman’. Although it seems that being called a ‘strong black woman’ is a compliment, it isn’t said to be one nor is it perceived to be.

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Why do so many traditionally successful black men fail in relationships or have problems connecting with women?

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Tips for dating an older black woman

For men interested in dating older black women, it’s on a whole different level than you are used to, courting and dating older black women requires you to take a different approach.
There are some important differences that you should be aware of from the beginning…

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It certainly seems to me that, as black men, we are slowly letting ourselves slip…

One argument could be that the black woman no longer expects high enough standards when it comes to dating, relationships, and marriage but my personal opinion is that this argument is irreverent.

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I know what you’re thinking “let’s have sex” but no, not those three words… while this suggestion, coming from a black woman may be the most intense sex-inducing words she can say, but in the deeper context of love sexy runs way deeper than intimate sex

The three words in question-whether she whispers them in your ear or writes them down on a napkin-can quickly mesmerize and flood his spinal cord with fluid, snap his shoulders square and unfurl his superman cape


So today I came across a post with a photo caption entitled “Stop Slandering Straight Black Men“.
Straight away I thought that this title would attract a lot of attention… from two types of people.
1. The type who are outraged that somebody would come to the defence of straight black men.
2. The type who love and support straight black men… both types of people would be sure to read on to see what the poster had to say 😅

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“You learn a lot about people when you listen to the songs that mean something to them” – Anonymous

Being a solid prolific and cultic follower/lover of the diverse African heritage music arts, in the black community worldwide I am automatically predisposed to pay keen attention to all types of music genres ranging from, afro-beats/fusion, Jamaican dancehall, UK grime & rap, American hip-hop and any subgenre in between both in the underground scene and the mainstream.

In the current diverse era of popular music, and the Internet’s instant gratification of viral fame it’s hard to miss the message being passed on by our young blood, while most of it may be true half of it is fabrication to satisfy the unfortunate self distorted image of how it feels to be black, because in reality not all black people pop opioid pills, or mix lean (codeine) in their soda for leisure, sell narcotics for a living or have a ton pile of assault rifles laying around their homes  as constantly depicted by the so call mumble generation of rappers.