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She Doesn’t Miss You She Misses The Man She Thought You WERE

Ever since you walked out of her life, her every moment is spent praying that you would somehow show up for her again.

Whatever she does, whoever she talks to, or how busy she tries to be, doesn’t matter much, her thoughts of you always linger in her mind. Things are pretty simple and straight forward, she misses you, and she is still in love with you, in her heart she is still convinced that you both deserve another chance, your lost relationship is worthy to fight for, and she is ultimately scared to let you go completely.

September 15, 2019 by Arielle

Dating

These Are Officially The Top 8 Cities To Meet Black Singles…

Black singles in the African American community often complain that they can’t find other black singles, even though we are literally everywhere! Or that the black people around them don’t date black. This is always my cue to offer them to sign up to Straight Black Love, of course.. but if you just want to meet new people out and about and have a better experience in general within the United States, maybe you just need to relocate?

September 14, 2019 by Arielle

Courting, Icebreakers

10 Real Relationship Goals For Black Couples

As a dating and relationships blogger, I have learned that the routine boring and traditional ways of getting to know more about each other as a black couple can slow down connections and weaken relationships.

Instead of conforming to the usual predictable routine, it is far better to participate in activities that have been scientifically proven to improve and strengthen your stand as a black couple and build more attraction to your spouse while strengthening the mutual bond that you both share. The following are workable ideas that you can both tailor to adapt to your style as a black couple.

September 13, 2019 by Daniel N

Black Men, Courting, Dating Advice

The Sexiest 3 Words a Black Woman Can Say To a Man

I know what you’re thinking “let’s have sex” but no, not those three words… while this suggestion, coming from a black woman may be the most intense sex-inducing words she can say, but in the deeper context of love sexy runs way deeper than intimate sex

The three words in question-whether she whispers them in your ear or writes them down on a napkin-can quickly mesmerize and flood his spinal cord with fluid, snap his shoulders square and unfurl his superman cape

“Stop Slandering Straight Black Men…”

So today I came across a post with a photo caption entitled “Stop Slandering Straight Black Men“.

Straight away I thought that this title would attract a lot of attention… from two types of people.

1. The type who are outraged that somebody would come to the defence of straight black men.

and,

2. The type who love and support straight black men… both types of people would be sure to read on to see what the poster had to say 😅

September 11, 2019 by Arielle

Dating

7 Brutally Honest Reasons Why A Man Won’t Call You Back…

You both had a blast on your last date that lasted for hours, you both told each other all kinds of fun stories about the past and laughed your hearts out; you really hit it off with this one. So it seemed…

September 9, 2019 by Daniel N

Dating

You Can’t Be The KING Until You Embrace Her Divine Black Feminine Energy

The late great baseball legend Jackie Robinson once quoted an old but a truthful saying that
‘behind every successful man there is usually a woman who deserves more credit for his successes’

Whatever amount of credit due, it’s rarely given to such deserving women. This wise saying holds across the board from politics to popular culture, and especially in the black community there are a ton of iconic figures who achieve the king status attributed to their ability to tap into the divine black feminine energy of their spouses, they were able to acquire great heights of success by being consciously aware of the power of the divine black feminine energy and its significant role in achievement of their black man’s wildest dream.
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September 8, 2019 by Daniel N

Black Love, Black Women, Dating

Choose Your Black Queen Everyday… Or Leave Her

“I wasted five years hurting a good black queen by passively staying with her but never choosing her fully.”

What is worst than being single (for the person who doesn’t want to be single)?

Being with someone who makes you feel single…

To her I bet it feels like a slow torturous death; if you are absent when times get tough and then leave her be – she deserves a man who is always present especially when the going gets tough.

As a man it doesn’t feel right to string a black queen’s heart along knowing deep in your heart you have no intention to choose her and be there when she needs you the most. A good black woman deserves a man who will love her unconditionally and that person is out there, it is clearly not you, you are just in her way to true happiness and love.

You can’t be in a relationship and be choosy of the moments you want to be in her life, it’s not optional or even practical.
If she has made up her mind to fully commit to you and be loyal to only you, it’s high time you reciprocate the commitment mutually.

September 1, 2019 by Daniel N