7 signs of true love from a man

The adage “actions speak louder than words” rings truer than ever when it comes to dating and relationships. Anyone can tell you what you want to hear – but only someone who actually MEANS what they say will make sure their actions back up their words.


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9 Small Things black men Notice About You Even If You Think They Don't

Women tend to think that black men don’t generally see the little things. (Probably because while women comment on everything they observe men tend to register it and move on.) All they care about is aesthetics, right? Not quite…

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Why do so many traditionally successful black men fail in relationships or have problems connecting with women?

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It certainly seems to me that, as black men, we are slowly letting ourselves slip…

One argument could be that the black woman no longer expects high enough standards when it comes to dating, relationships, and marriage but my personal opinion is that this argument is irreverent.

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So today I came across a post with a photo caption entitled “Stop Slandering Straight Black Men“.
Straight away I thought that this title would attract a lot of attention… from two types of people.
1. The type who are outraged that somebody would come to the defence of straight black men.
2. The type who love and support straight black men… both types of people would be sure to read on to see what the poster had to say 😅

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“You learn a lot about people when you listen to the songs that mean something to them” – Anonymous

Being a solid prolific and cultic follower/lover of the diverse African heritage music arts, in the black community worldwide I am automatically predisposed to pay keen attention to all types of music genres ranging from, afro-beats/fusion, Jamaican dancehall, UK grime & rap, American hip-hop and any subgenre in between both in the underground scene and the mainstream.

In the current diverse era of popular music, and the Internet’s instant gratification of viral fame it’s hard to miss the message being passed on by our young blood, while most of it may be true half of it is fabrication to satisfy the unfortunate self distorted image of how it feels to be black, because in reality not all black people pop opioid pills, or mix lean (codeine) in their soda for leisure, sell narcotics for a living or have a ton pile of assault rifles laying around their homes  as constantly depicted by the so call mumble generation of rappers.